Loving ourselves, healing our emotional wounds, setting boundaries, breaking trauma bonds and doing the necessary
healing work after a toxic relationship is a radical decision in today's society.
In addressing this part of the problem we evolve into a conscious lover. This means we stop over-giving, over-functioning,
people-pleasing, needy/clingy behavior, abandoning our boundaries, fantasizing about potential, romanticizing
emotional pain, projecting/withholding, giving up our power, marinating in denial, ignoring our intuition,
playing victim, issuing ultimatums, tolerating infidelity, physical, verbal and emotional abuse.
In becoming a conscious lover, we integrate parts of ourselves that were previously disowned and abandoned
such as our inner child, ego, boundaries, standards and self-love. In conscious love, we operate from a position of
strength and emotional security which results in dating smarter, understanding and becoming aware of
relationship killers and builders while engaging in the kind of self-love that rivals Mount Everest.
We become woke. We become savage self-lovers. We are healing our inner little girls.
We are #lovingmeafterwe